The Palest Ink is Better Than the Best Memory

Today our discussion about making it easy to get more pages done is about

Step 7:  Journaling

The Chinese proverb, “The palest ink is better than the best memory” is certainly true and thought provoking when it comes to making your scrapbook pages.  Yes, years down the road someone is going to be thankful that there is something written on your scrapbook page!  The ink may be faded by then, but it will be better than only pictures of which people may not even remember anything about the who, what, why, when, or where.

So many people say they don’t like their handwriting on their pages (and that is a whole separate topic).  Okay, well type it out and stick it on!  Be mindful that it could be meaningful in days to come, even to you!  Journaling does not have to be the equivalent of writing a small essay.  It’s just jotting down the importance of the photo, if nothing else the who and when!  That won’t take you that long.  Don’t make a bigger thing out of than it is, and don’t let is stop you from getting a page done.  In fact, you could always add more detail another day, or add a little pocket for some hidden journaling, in case the fact of making it so “public” would stop you from doing it.

I am so grateful that my mother has such an interest in her family, both on her mother’s side, as well as her father’s.  I think you could say she is a true heritage keeper.  Even before scrapbooking, as we know it today, was popular, she spent hours and hours writing down information on the back of any old family pictures she has.  Even though the information is on the back of the pictures, and you have to remove it from the picture sleeve to read it, the information is there.  Without journaling, we would have no idea who the people were.  Once she is gone, that information would be gone with her.  Working with her to document some of the pictures we still find, is like detective work!  Sometimes we’ll have to compare photos to others we have to figure out who people are.  Even at that, we already have missing info.

In the end, it’s all about the pictures and the words. After my husband’s mother passed away, my sister-in-law came to me with a giant box of photos, which had been my mother-in-law’s method of memory keeping.  We sorted pictures into two piles; one pile for anything documented or who we knew, and the other was a pile of photos that we had no idea of their significance.  Sadly, there was a much larger pile of pictures of which we had no clue about.  Those are the pictures that we would have been grateful for having a faint bit of ink; but there was none.

In the end, it doesn’t matter what the theme of your layout is, or what colors you chose, or how the page is embellished, it’s all about the pictures and the words.  You may have pages that speak for themselves, to you — now, but wouldn’t it be nice to look at those same pages years down the road and still have some information?  A lot of things happen in life, and what seems to be something you feel you would never forget, will become far less important and the details fade from memory.

Stop in for the next segment on Managing Your Scrapbook Time, or Scrapbooking with your Elephant

Fall Festivities at the Pumpkin Patch

The colors and activities of fall are always so wonderful to capture! I feel blessed to live where there are seasonal changes that allow us to capture great outdoor pictures with vibrant hues of yellows, oranges, and reds! This past weekend we went out to Pinehaven Farm to enjoy their fall activities and go out to their pumpkin patch to pick pumpkins!

We had two of our daughters, and their daughters, Princess 1 (14 years old) and Princess 2 (five), with us. The girls decorated small pumpkins as pirates and cats with little sets of adhesive foam cutouts. What a great idea to decorate with stick-ons so that your little pumpkins will last till Halloween and not deteriorate by carving too soon.

A farm has to have animals to be complete, right? Their animals seem like a combination of “regular” farm animals and a zoo. There were miniature horses, (I think I would own one if I was in the country again!) goats with the cutest babies, emus, yaks, sheep, geese, a llama, peacocks….. I don’t even remember what else! Princess 2 was always in a rush to see the next animals before the rest of us were ever finished looking at the ones we were standing in front of.

We rode tractor pulled wagons out the pumpkin patch. Princess 2 barely got off the wagon and found her perfect pumpkin before everyone had even gotten off the wagon. In fact she had to wait for everyone to get off the wagon before racing back up the steps.  She set her pumpkin on her seat and got back down to find another one. We all had fun looking at different shapes and sizes and picking out some other pumpkins. There was some surprise as to how prickly the stems and vines still on the ground were. I heard “Ouch!” more than once.  When we got back to the wagon, Princess 2 spread her arms out, looking around saying, “My pumpkin is gone!” With years of experience under our belts, we braced ourselves to deal with what could be devastation. What were we thinking? She jumped back off the wagon and found another perfect pumpkin just steps away, and quickly climbed back up the steps to take her seat on the wagon. Whew… it’s so nice to have people with a pleasant attitudes!